If growing, expanding, learning is moving forward theĀ  I have definitely been doing that everyday of my life- that is my primary motivation in life, always has been. I think my current issue is not so much becoming more me , as that is something I can absolutely trust myself to do. It’s more about where do I put my energies – where can I make the greatest contribution? What kind of contribution do I want to make? Thank you for reminding me I am definitely more kinesthetic so I am going to focus on ‘how do I want to feel?’ – that was my starting point for transforming my orientation to dating which led me to my lovely man – so that is very helpful, thank you.